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Thursday, November 26, 2009
Saturday, November 14, 2009
Breathtaking Dinner Conversations-in certain seconds
Today brother and I had dinner that was being accompanied by mom and dad. This was quite special, since this is the first time of the week that we have our father to actually be 'there' at night, sitting right next to us. He has been very busy with his work and stuff. Leaving for work too early and coming home too late. This is sad to admit, but nothing we can do, really.We talked about everything. Starting from our plan of moving to Bandung if my little bro made it into ITB in the next 2 and a half year ahead-amen for that. Then we changed our topic to one of my little bro's friend who had just got an amputation because of a cancer that he suffers. It breaks my heart, when my bro said, just a year ago, he was so active playing football, running around on those fields, but now he have to let go of what made him stands-his legs. I couldn't stop feeling so grateful for having my body the way it is-also my families'.
We were eating tempe & sayur asem-I'm sick, so we gotta eat something healthy. And my mother said that if we eat these kind of stuff everyday, we'll be rich because we don't hove to spend our money on expensive food such beef etc. I agreed while my brother didn't. Both my parents said "economic student's behavior is so different than computer science kid". "so are you saying I'm cheap, mum??" lol.
The conversation wasn't over. I started talking about whether it's true if the person who work in my dad's office are rich and everything… But both my parent said, not really. The office is wealthy, but not the employee in common. Then my mom said that if my dad work in some private company but in the same position as he is in one of the government company right now, he would of create tens of millions by now. It BUGGED me like hell. "why don't you quit and find another job in those privates???" they said that it's too late. It wont be as easy as that. Okay, now I'm feeling so pissed and disappointed. If only dad work in privates I could of got me more clothes, more excitement, more of everything in my young age. It's like, have fun while you can, while you need it. Having everything you could ever want in your young age is very important-what i thought before.But I don't want to feel that way anymore. If i keep on getting what I want without knowing how it actually feels to earn them, i would of know no respect and wont ever feel grateful of what I have. Those fancy kids ain't staying fancy forever, if they don't give a try on their own, without using the parents' money.
We should be so proud having a father who work his ass off for the sake of this country.
We should be proud that even the pay isn't worth it, but he still wakes up in the morning and head straight to his office despite that he haven't got a chance to talk that much with his family.
We should be proud that even people don't put so much respect to government's sectors, he still uses his working time effectively and not trying to get home early even though it's late and he knows he will get home by more than midnight.
For us, who has been so gratefully given chances by God to feel the easy and happy life, What makes us think we deserve more of these than those people who aren't very lucky?
It isn't really about what you can get from this world, but about what you can contribute to this world.
Life is not about how many breaths you take, it's about the moments that takes your breath away.
Once you give, you'll never get enough of giving. It's addictive. In a good way. You will feel something that is beautifully indescribably.
We were eating tempe & sayur asem-I'm sick, so we gotta eat something healthy. And my mother said that if we eat these kind of stuff everyday, we'll be rich because we don't hove to spend our money on expensive food such beef etc. I agreed while my brother didn't. Both my parents said "economic student's behavior is so different than computer science kid". "so are you saying I'm cheap, mum??" lol.
The conversation wasn't over. I started talking about whether it's true if the person who work in my dad's office are rich and everything… But both my parent said, not really. The office is wealthy, but not the employee in common. Then my mom said that if my dad work in some private company but in the same position as he is in one of the government company right now, he would of create tens of millions by now. It BUGGED me like hell. "why don't you quit and find another job in those privates???" they said that it's too late. It wont be as easy as that. Okay, now I'm feeling so pissed and disappointed. If only dad work in privates I could of got me more clothes, more excitement, more of everything in my young age. It's like, have fun while you can, while you need it. Having everything you could ever want in your young age is very important-what i thought before.But I don't want to feel that way anymore. If i keep on getting what I want without knowing how it actually feels to earn them, i would of know no respect and wont ever feel grateful of what I have. Those fancy kids ain't staying fancy forever, if they don't give a try on their own, without using the parents' money.
We should be so proud having a father who work his ass off for the sake of this country.
We should be proud that even the pay isn't worth it, but he still wakes up in the morning and head straight to his office despite that he haven't got a chance to talk that much with his family.
We should be proud that even people don't put so much respect to government's sectors, he still uses his working time effectively and not trying to get home early even though it's late and he knows he will get home by more than midnight.
For us, who has been so gratefully given chances by God to feel the easy and happy life, What makes us think we deserve more of these than those people who aren't very lucky?
It isn't really about what you can get from this world, but about what you can contribute to this world.
Life is not about how many breaths you take, it's about the moments that takes your breath away.
Once you give, you'll never get enough of giving. It's addictive. In a good way. You will feel something that is beautifully indescribably.
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